Communication

This is kind of borderline. Let me ping this off my readers: is this stupid, KJ, wrong, accurate, or already covered?

Humans are always communicating. They are communicating physically, or they are communicating verbally, or both, at all times.

Humans communicate for the sake of communication. They get enjoyment out of socializing because of the emotions they get, the pinging of their reality off of other people, and the potentially useful things they can learn.

Verbal communication is simply whatever comes out of your mouth (or whatever does not come out of your mouth). Physical communication is kino, sex, proximity, body language, etc. (or the absence thereof).

In modern society the average guy doesn't communicate with physicality, especially kinaeshetic communications, as much as verbal modes. Cavemen, in contrast, communicate almost exclusively with physicality.

I think a proper sarge is a happy medium, where you are fully communicating through how you move your body, how you touch her body, and what you are saying. Through these modes of communication, a woman can somewhat ping where you are (mentality, worldview, social status, confidence, authenticity). Quite simply, if you're bringing 100% of your communication to bear, and it's communicating good things, then it's perhaps the most authentic/attractive form of interaction possible.

Not using all of these methods of communication is suspicious. To speak, but not touch, is essentially as unusual as moving and touching, but not talking. It's strange and unnatural. Physical withholding of sex is a break in physical rapport, requiring more verbal rapport (sometimes). Verbal withholding of sex is a break in verbal rapport, sometimes requiring more physical rapport. (This theory is somewhat supported by my own experiences, but it seems to just make sense to me on an emotional level.)

Even as I type this, I think of how I would use this to EFA(early frame announcement) a female by projecting a normalcy onto physical communciation- literally quoting what I've written so far, especially the withholding of communication as suspicious and bizarre.